" Our graces are either growing or shrinking. It seems to be the law of nature
that everything and every person must move along. There is no standing still.
The moment the growth stops, decay sets in."
-Laura Ingalls Wilder
"I cannot stand still in my work. If I do not keep studying and going
ahead I slip back," said a friend to me the other day.
"Well, neither can I in my work," I thought. My mind kept dwelling on the idea.
Was there a work that one could learn to do with a certain degree of excellence,
and then keep that perfection without a ceaseless effort to advance?
How easy and delightful life might be if we could do this, if when we had attained the
position we wished we might rest on our oars and watch the ripples on the stream of life.
Turning my mind resolutely from the picture of what would happen to the person
who rested on his oars, expecting to hold his position where the tide was rippling,
I began looking around for a place in life where one could stand still, without
troubling to advance and without losing what already has been gained.
My friend who plays the piano so beautifully was a fair performer years ago,
but has improved greatly as time went by. She spends several hours every day
at the instrument practicing. "I have to practice," she says, "or I shall lose
my power of execution," and because she does practice to keep what she
already has, she goes on improving from day to day and from year to year.
In contrast to this, is the other friend who used to sing so much and who had
such a lovely voice. She hardly ever sings now and told me the other day
that she thought she was losing her voice. She also said that she was so
busy she had no time to practice.
There is also a woman who "completed her education" some years ago.
She thought there was no need for further effort along that line and that she
had her education for all time, so she settled down to the house work and
poultry. She has read very little of anything that would help her to keep
abreast of the times and does not now give the impression of being an
educated, cultured person but quite the reverse.
No doubt she has forgotten more than I ever knew, but the point is
that she has lost it. Refusing to go ahead, she has dropped back.
Even a housekeeper who is a good housekeeper and stays such becomes
a better and more capable one from the practice and exercise of her art and
profession. If she does not, you may be sure she is slipping back and instead
of being proficient will soon be a careless woman who will say,
"I used to be a good housekeeper, but,-"
The same rule applies to character. Our friends and neighbors are either
better friends and neighbors today than they were several years ago or they
are not so good. We are either broader minded, more tolerant and sympathetic
now than we used to be or the reverse is true. The person who is selfish, or
mean or miserly-does he not grow more so as the years pass, unless he
makes a special effort to go in the other direction?
Our graces are either growing or shrinking. It seems to be the law of nature
that everything and every person must move along. There is no standing still.
The moment the growth stops, decay sets in.
One of the greatest safeguards against becoming old is to keep growing
mentally, you know. If we do not strive to gain we lose what we already have,
for just so surely as "practice makes perfect" the want of practice or lack of
exercise of talents and knowledge makes for the opposite condition.
We must advance or we slip back and few of us are bright enough to turn
a slip to good account as did the school boy of long ago. This particular boy
was late at school one icy winter morning and the teacher reproved him
and asked him the reason for his tardiness.
"I started early enough," answered Tom, "but it was so slippery that every
time I took one step ahead I slipped back two steps."
There was a hush of astonishment and then the teacher asked,
"But if that is true, how did you ever get here?"
"Oh, that's easy," Tom replied. "I was afraid I was going to be late
and so I just turned around and came backwards."
Image courtesy/Ladies Literary Guide
"Are You Going Ahead?"
An article written for the farm newspaper,
the Missouri Ruralist
By Laura Ingalls Wilder
(1867-1957)
Prolific American writer and original pioneer girl.
Author of the "Little House" book series.
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